Image by Gerard Stolk op weg naar 8 maart via FlickrHow high can these shoes go and how is it even possible for a woman to walk around in them?
The real answer is that the higher the heel the less a woman can walk around in them and that is the most alluring part of it all. One of the many such reasons that some men are obsessed with a woman wearing very high heels while having sex is the fact that it creates a sense of helplessness for the woman, she is unable to move very quickly allowing her man to catch her and take her without her making a speedy escape. This is all based in the animal instinct of a man, the pure nature of catching the female to spread his seed. The other alluring aspect about a woman wearing high heels is the fact that when she moves, her hips are forced to sway back and forth giving her a very feminine look while walking around.
The real answer is that the higher the heel the less a woman can walk around in them and that is the most alluring part of it all. One of the many such reasons that some men are obsessed with a woman wearing very high heels while having sex is the fact that it creates a sense of helplessness for the woman, she is unable to move very quickly allowing her man to catch her and take her without her making a speedy escape. This is all based in the animal instinct of a man, the pure nature of catching the female to spread his seed. The other alluring aspect about a woman wearing high heels is the fact that when she moves, her hips are forced to sway back and forth giving her a very feminine look while walking around.
Many times when a man has asked his girlfriend, wife or lover to put on very high heels he may want her to walk around the room so that he can see her butt move back and forth and the way that her feet are elevated in the shoe. Many men have been known to have a foot fetish but the heel fetish could also be one on its own, where the woman’s foot is not the object of affection but when placed in the heel it creates a sudden rush of blood to a mans gentiles causing him to have an immediate erection. When a man has a fetish for a high heel it is really just a part of his personality and not something that he will be willing to give up any time soon. The woman that he is with should understand this so that he is not forced to hide or cheat in the relationship.
Some men are so invested in seeing the high heel on the women’s foot, that without it he may find it hard to climax. Many people would think that women are the only ones to purchase the high heel but in reality many men are purchasing the heels and giving to their partner to wear. The fetish is not soon to go away and in fact with the over whelming selection of even higher heels and more women in pornography wearing them, this increase a man want to fill his desires.
The one aspect that I will say being a sexologist and marriage counselor, is if a man is married and his wife is willing to wear the high heels for him, then he should stop looking at pornography that involves other women wearing them and focus on his wife, the more a man indulges in the pornography of the high heel fetish the more he is going to expect of his partner to wear even higher heels. So embrace your fetish but at the same time don’t over indulge in it either, there is always a balance in life and with a fetish.
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